I have taken a week of from dealing with the house to visit my dad for his birthday. I needed the break anyway. I hope this time will allow me to take another step back and really process the loss and the repercussions.  I will update again when I get back in a week. Thank you all who are checking the blog weekly and hanging in there with me. People are asking about needs at this time. I am settled as much as possible until the next move that I project to be at the end of the summer. Thank you all for asking and offering.